Updated: March 2, 2013 6:04AM
Dr. Wallace: The guy I’m dating is a nice guy, and we have had great fun, but lately he has become sexually aggressive — so much so that I have to threaten to call my dad on my cell phone to have him pick me up and take me home. When we first started dating, he told me that he only wanted to date a virgin (I told him that I had never been sexually involved) and that his wife had to be a virgin. One night when on a date with me, he went into a drugstore and bought a package of condoms. He then opened the box and pulled one out and asked me if I had ever seen one before. He said I had better get used to seeing them because we were going to start a “beautiful sexual adventure.” I couldn’t believe what I was seeing and hearing.
Later he called and apologized for his aggressive behavior and said that he wanted to continue seeing me again. But now I’m not sure that I can trust him to behave himself. I like the guy, but I’m not in love with him. What should I do?
Atlantic City, N.J.
Nameless: If he meant what he said when he first started going with you, he was going to dump you after he was finished using you. Don’t give him the opportunity. The guy is a jerk, and you can’t trust him. He is a 100 percent loser!
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